I am living in a western country from past five years, and never went back to my home country once I moved here. While living these long five years in a place which is new to me and where I am new to everyone, I had many experiences which are worth knowing in one's life. I call these experiences, long lasting education to real world, which changes your thinking to look at the things and people around you.
Before moving from my home country, I heard from people and saw in the movies that western countries are all sexually exploited, where people only think about sex. I was surprised when I came to Australia and saw that people's theory was contrast to the reality. There are many types of hunger, and sex is one of those types, which is everywhere in the world in right quantity of salt in the curry. Only difference in many countries and this country is that they have channelized this hunger through right channels to control sex greed and reduce sex crime. This reminds me of the era of Kamasutra, when kings use to have these channels in the corner of their city to control sex crimes, domestic violence and much more.
World is changing but brains are still stocked on the same place to be a critic to led something or someone down. We are mature enough to think right about the society and can stop it from proceeding further towards its destruction. One day this world will finish, and reason behind will be "us", who can be a critic but cannot be a critical thinker, who believes in changing his thinking to change this world. Now next bit is going to be bit interesting because I am going to tell you a true incident or I can say a question I answered which came through a patron to whom I went to drop home on late Friday night.
Night was still young, and I was driving home from the night club. While standing near my car, I saw a lovely lady coming towards me. I can never forget that innocent and lovely smile, who was going to ask me a question of lifetime which changed my ideology about thinking about things and I realize that what people think about girls is wrong. However, she jumped into my taxi on front seat and told me drive her to GC.
I was excited for a two hours' drive with a beautiful girl in the mid of night, it was like my dream come true. Here I was hit by reality that was, "LIVING THE DREAM..." what we all do and are always doing until we get through the question of the lifetime. After one hour of drive and talking about various topics, she straight away asked me, "If you got married and one day you came to know about your wife that she was a prostitute in her past. What will be your action after knowing the reality? Would you be able to love her the same way she does?". I was stunned after listening to her question, because it was an unexpected query and I was bit shy to answer this type of question because of my cultural background. After thinking for about 15 minutes, I was smiling and was happy from inside and was feeling blessing here for changing the way I use to think. I said, "USE TO THINK" because I use to think 15 minutes ago the same way other people think and react in this kind of situation.
These fifteen minutes of life were worth answering her query. She smiled at me and said, "I know you will leave her and go on in your life as women are made to use only.". I again smiled and said, "Mam, you asked me a question which was hard for me to answer, but after doing come critical thinking and brain storming inside my brain I have accepted that women as the best part of my life.". She was shocked with my answer, she broke down, started crying and told me that she is going through this these days as her partner left her after knowing her past. She cried for 45 minutes sitting in the cab beside me. I was also in tears and feeling the same pain she was going through. 
When we reached the destination, she insisted me for a selfie with her and while leaving she asked me, "why would you accept a girl in your life who was a prostitute in the past.". I said, "Mam, you gave the answer yourself by saying two words, "Was" & "Past". Though my Guru thought me to live in present not in the past. Past is gone and is unchangeable, whereas Present is happening right now, which is going to affect my Future. So why should I get bothered about what she was doing in her past, rather I should be bothered about what is she doing today. She left with a huge smile on her face, which gave me the best day of my life.
Moral of the story: Living the dreamed future by Living it through your present and learning from past. We should change generalized thinking and make a change.
*I haven't the name of any country in order to condemn a generalized thinking we maintain about western culture, which I believe is not correct ethically. I apologies if someone is hurt with the words I used in the article. English is not my first language, so please accept my apologies for incorrect language. I will appreciate if you call can share your belief in the comment box below."
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